Why Blog here

It's been awhile since I've explained what it is we're doing here.....

This is an anonymous blog -- anyone can ask to join us and may -- in the freedom of their anonymity -- blog, bitch, vent -- as needed. It's a place where you don't have to censor yourself for the sake of your partner(s) or readers.

some of us have other blogs
some of us don't have a blog and just want to try blogging out for size

If you would like to join us -- all you need is a gmail account -- (I recommend that you get a new one if you wish to remain anonymous) -- email me at yourpeacefulone@gmail.com

and then when you are invited to join -- post at will (it's nice to not post on the same day someone else has posted so they have at least one day in the sun)

If you want folks to follow your story-- put your name (your new name) in the label and I'll create a link for it.

Come join us -- blogging is fun -- but horribly horribly horribly addictive

A declaration of love

Someone has to kick things off. Might as well be me.

From my journal -- almost one year ago:

It's Monday -- after a weekend together.

Telling him that I love him has been on the tip of my tongue for about a week.

I was afraid it was just going to slip out casually on the phone. Not the way I wanted to do it.

I decided to tell him On Thursday over dinner. But sometimes he has a hard time reining the pervy in.

The moment wasn't right.

Friday -- I was just plain exhausted
Saturday -- more perviness

Finally -- lolling about in the afterglow, I turned and said, "Don't freak out, but it's occurred to me that I love you"

He told me that he loved me too and he has for a long time.

I love that he knew that I had to be able to get there on my own. Apparently his friends have been teasing him about our avoidance of the "L" word.

It's scary.

Of course
true to form

I felt remorse and relief as soon as it was said.

He's gone overboard -- telling me he loves me too much -- I think he's backlogged.

I don't regret feeling it -- but SAYING it changes us -- takes us to the next place

frightens me

COWARD

yup -- guilty as charged

But I DO love him

God help me -- I DO.

Ok -- should we have some rules?

I've had a few people who've expressed interest -- if this blog is going to remain confidential -- you'll have to choose an alias -- to help readers (if we get any!) to follow your story -- without outing yourself as your other blog-self

It would be great if you entered your new blog-alias in the labels section so people can find your posts easily.

Other than that -- anything goes as long as it's topical -- and isn't mean-spirited towards others who belong to the site. And the usual TOU stuff -- no kids -- no animals -- etc.

Much love to you all

Your moderator -- sfp

So this started off as a joke -- but if anyone does want to join this blog -- the purpose of which is to provide a blogging space for anyone who wants to blog about TTWD without your sub/Dom/partner knowing everything you're sharing

You may do it here.

To request to play --email me at yourpeacefulone@gmail.com

(wouldn't it be hysterical if this took off??)

sfp